I believe talented people rarely need more information. More often, they need the time, space and support to think clearly, make confident decisions and build a business or career that's aligned with who they are and how they want to live.
About
Hello, I'm Val
I'm a coach, consultant, mentor and connector.
But before any of that, I'm someone who has spent an entire career helping people navigate complexity.
Whether I was working in legal and corporate affairs, coordinating ministerial visits and royal engagements, building my own business, or now supporting coaching clients, one thing has remained constant:
I love helping people find clarity when everything feels complicated.
Because when we think clearly, we make better decisions.
And better decisions have a remarkable way of changing everything.
My Story
In 2011, I left a demanding career in legal and corporate affairs to pursue a different kind of success.
Armed with little more than a laptop, a mobile phone and a kitchen table, I launched Benessamy Wedding & Event Design.
Over the years, that business has grown into a multi-award-winning wedding and events company, giving me the opportunity to work with incredible clients, travel to beautiful places and build a business I'm genuinely proud of.
I'm still actively involved in Benessamy today which means the advice I offer my coaching clients isn't based solely on theory. It's grounded in real experience.
I understand the excitement of building something from scratch.
The challenges, the self-doubt, the responsibility.
The constant decision-making.
The pressure of wearing every hat, and the temptation to keep pushing, even when your energy is running low.
Running a successful business has taught me that success means very little if it comes at the expense of your wellbeing.
What I Believe
Over the years, I've realised something important. Most talented people don't need more information. They don't need another book, podcast or online course. What they often need is something much more rare - The space to think.
That's why my coaching isn't about giving you all the answers. It's about creating the conditions where clarity can emerge. Where you can step back from the noise, untangle what's on your mind and reconnect with what matters most.
Because I believe:
- Success shouldn't come at the expense of your wellbeing.
- Your best decisions are rarely made in a rush.
- Clarity is often more valuable than more information.
- Talented people don't need fixing—they need space to think.
- Meaningful success looks different for everyone.
These beliefs shape every coaching conversation I have.
How I Work
People often tell me they feel calmer after we've spoken. Not because I've magically solved all their problems but because they've had the opportunity to slow down, think differently and gain perspective.
My role isn't to tell you what to do. It's to ask thoughtful questions and to listen carefully. To gently challenge your thinking when needed and to create a space where you can hear yourself again.
Whether we spend ninety minutes together, a full day or several months working side by side, my aim is always the same:
To help you move forward with greater clarity, confidence and purpose.
A Little More About Me
Away from coaching, I'm happiest when life is beautifully simple.
I'm married to a wonderful Yorkshireman who has supported every one of my ambitious ideas, and together we have two children.
I love travelling, discovering great restaurants, live music, long walks, yoga and losing myself in a good book.
Fresh air and movement have become an important part of how I think, reflect and reset, which is probably why you'll often find me walking when I'm working through a challenge or exploring a new idea.
Integrity, kindness, loyalty and perseverance are values that guide both my life and my work.
I believe business can be ambitious and compassionate.
Successful and sustainable.
Professional without losing its humanity.
If You're Looking For...
..someone who will:
- listen carefully
- challenge you thoughtfully
- help you untangle what's on your mind
- encourage you when confidence wobbles
- create the space where your best thinking can happen...
I'd love to work with you.
Whether you're looking for a single Clarity Session, a dedicated Thinking Day through Refresh & Shine, or longer-term coaching and mentoring, we'll find the approach that's right for you.
‘I’ve worked with Val for three years. She has helped me to transition my career from the public sector to creating my own business where I am thriving on a personal level, and financially. Val manages to combine complete non-judgemental support with the challenging questions to move you on to the next level.’
Shonagh Reid
Need a little space to think?
If something you've read here has resonated, I'd love to hear your story.
Let's start with a relaxed, no-obligation conversation about where you are, what's on your mind and where you'd like to be. Together, we'll explore whether coaching is the right next step for you.
